"How To Save Your Marriage..."

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“Love & Marriage...Without Divorce”

"Can Your Marriage Be Saved?"


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Introduction To The Series: "How to Save Your Marriage..."

This report has painted the unpleasant side of divorce to help you realize that it may not necessarily be the solution to your unhappiness, and in the second section, we’ve advanced arguments to promote the numerous advantages of marriage and staying married.

But life does have hitches and will always be full of obstacles, threatening the stability of married life. We now offer some tips on how to save your marriage when you sense that it’s on the rocks or needs a re-overhauling.

Men and women perceive emotion, communication, sex, fidelity, work and money because of the way they were socialized and because they have been shaped by their own parents’ perceptions.

They bring these ideas into the marriage and hence have their own baggage of beliefs regarding what is tolerable and intolerable in a marriage, what they have to give their spouse and what to expect in return.

Writing the book, “For Better or For Worse”, Heatherington and Kelly illustrate this point more clearly when they mention the different ways men and women choose a partner:

“Women approach love as informed consumers…they kick the tires, look under the hood, run the motor, check the mileage. Women love love, but being practical-minded, not enough to ignore potential defects.

Good looks and romantic love matter to a woman, but in considering potential suitors, a woman also looks at the practical, such as a suitor’s economic prospects, emotional stability, trustworthiness, and what kind of father he will be…

Despite a reputation for practicality, males come off as hopeless romantics. They are much more prone to fall head-over-heels in love…and also more prone to idealize the object of their affection. If the bodywork is good and the grille pretty, often a man will buy on the spot, no questions asked.” ...E. Mavis Heatherington and John Kelly. For Better or for Worse. W.W. Norton & Company, New York, 2002.

It takes practice to learn that gender differences do not constitute threats to a marriage, but are a cause for celebration and an opportunity to expand an individual’s sphere of experience.

Try to remember that your partner is not your mirror image. In a loving, effective partnership, individuality and separateness are wholesome concepts that each spouse must work at.

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Coming Next In The Series: "Love & Marriage... Without Divorce"

"Gender Differences 2: A Word From Bill Cosby..."
"Notice the Small Stuff..."
"Money & Marriage"...

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While perfect love affairs are supposedly made in heaven, they're lived out here in our imperfect world. And my friend, therein lies the rub...

Most of us are just a little shy on that 'perfect' part, aren't we?

The staff here at Lazy Dude Publishers hope the content on this simple web site will help you do a tad better with attainment of the 'perfect' part...

Until next time, may the luck & happiness of true love, and the wisdom to recognize them, go with you...

Peace,
E R Thorpe: Publisher

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