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“Love & Marriage...Without
Divorce”
"Marriage
Is A Lifetime Commitment"
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It's no secret that we like to be judged in terms of what we have
accomplished in the human relationships department. For example:
“I managed to get my client
half of her husband’s properties overseas and alimony and child support
payments of close to $250,000 a year plus the three cars, the country
home, his art collection and half of his stocks.”
Compare the foregoing quote with this one:
“I didn’t really do anything special that
I can be proud of, except perhaps provide adequately for my family and
raise good children. Happily, they turned out to be well-abiding citizens
and I guess that’s the best reward there is.”
In the first
statement, we see shades of greed and materialism, in the second, humility
and self-effacement. Who has made a genuine contribution for the
betterment of society?
Much as it sounds
terribly old-fashioned, marriage is a commitment. And individuals must
make every attempt not to cheapen that commitment in any way.
Staying married
is a lifelong, missionary-like endeavor.
It takes guts. It
takes nerves of steel to make a marriage work. A sense of humor and a
lower degree of self-importance can sustain us in that work.
The obstacles will
be numerous, and there will be situations where we will question our
sanity, unsure if we can really hang in there.
It will be a
monumental effort to remain attracted to the same qualities that attracted
you to your spouse on the first day you met. Your spouse is still the
same person you fell in love with, he has not changed his soul, his being,
only his wardrobe.
So if there’s only
way to divorce, but a thousand ways to save your marriage, which path will
you choose? Are you going to throw in the towel or take up one more
challenge?
There’s very little
meaning to saving face or saving dollars; it’s much more noble and
enduring to save souls. But you won’t unlock the meaning of this
statement in your youth or in your 30’s.
Best to wait until
you reach mid-life, until your maturity has come full circle, and you get
to the point where you don’t want to turn your back on the most important
investment of your life, where every nerve of your body cries out,
“You’ve got to save us.”
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While perfect love affairs are
supposedly made in heaven, they're lived out here in our imperfect
world. And my friend, therein lies the rub...
Most of us are just a little shy on that 'perfect' part, aren't
we?
The staff here at Lazy Dude Publishers
hope the content on this simple web site will help you do a tad better
with attainment of the 'perfect' part...
Until next time, may
the luck & happiness of true love, and the wisdom to recognize
them, go with you...
Peace,
E R Thorpe:
Publisher
Disclaimer:
The information herein is not meant to
be taken as legal advice. The Publishers are not suggesting you follow
any references, resources, strategies or methods, either implicit or
implied, found herein or on any web page located at any referenced web
site when you're making decisions.
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